To get Fail means - Suicide?

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Sir Winston Churchill well said “Success is the ability to go from one failure to another with no loss of enthusiasm”.

The pressure created by the parents on their children is the outcome of their own social system that influenced them to provoke their children to win the battle in every aspect of life. The intense competition has changed the way of living these days. In this rat race everybody wants to win. Everybody wants the ball in his own court. The surrounding environment has also provoked the sense of competition in them. The definition of success these days has changed and confined to suppress the person who is on the way.

Parents and teachers are the mentors who groom the personality as well as inoculate those positive ideas that lead to the healthy competition. A child used to spend his maximum time with his teachers and the remaining with his parents. But sadly, this scenario has changed too and now youngsters have become couch potato and have isolated themselves to the social networking sites for communication. If they don’t get succeed in their task the fear to face everybody has forced them to commit suicide or sometimes they get involved in taking drugs or pills to make themselves separated from the present world.

This fear and anxiety is the outcome of external pressure which always forces them to prove them at every phase of life. Now its the time that both parents and children revive their traditional methods of communication like an intimate hug or a comforting pat or a warm kiss. Cold mobile talks, SMSs, e-mails or face book tweets would drift the once pious relationship still farther.

One should not be discouraged by failure. It can be a positive experience. Failure is, in a sense, the highway to success, inasmuch as every discovery of what is false leads us to seek earnestly after what is true, and every fresh experience points out some form of error which we shall afterwards carefully avoid.